I have been trying to approach things with a better, and more balanced perspective. Looking at all sides, allowing for mistakes but also giving myself credit to try things outside of my comfort zone in order to learn from them or at least give them a chance.
I am set in my ways - I like to think that I am adventurous but in reality I can be very (and I mean VERY) specific. This point was proven in yesterday's trip to the mall.
Let me give some context - I have been "looking for a new wallet" for 5 years. Each store I visit with wallets I look , inspect, debate and eventually leave behind a perfectly good wallet. Anyone close to me knows better than to purchase clothing or accessories for me as I am very particular. Although in a side note, I must say Dave is getting increasing better - especially with shoes! Okay back to the backstory - my currently wallet has nothing extremly special or meaningful about it. 6 or 7 years ago on a random trip to Aldo I purchased this red leather wallet - it was sturdy, held the appropriate amount of cards and just suit me. Fast forward to present date - I just can never seem to find one that lives up to the history and ability of the red wallet.
So - yesterday, Dave and I ventured to Yorkdale (the zoo) in search for men's blazers, a stylish yet business like messenger bag and of course anything that catches my eye. Luck have it I picked out a great bag for Dave from Danier that happened to be marked down and an additional 15% off. $180 down to $99 and then 15% off that! SOLD! As we were in line waiting I noticed a teal wallet, soft leather, similar style to my red Aldo wallet but just in an awesome colour. I did my usual "dance" and finally Dave said "it's 40% off - get it" - so I did. This is not unusual - most of my purchases work like this, however the after affect is usually a very deep buyer's remorse followed by a return and a chorus of "I told you so!" from Dave and my family.
I began to reassure myself in the usual way - by telling those around me how "perfect" the item is: "It compliments my new bag!", "It's a fun spring/summer colour!" and so on...
Walking to the car, I talked about it so much and Dave repeated his usual "keep the tags, if you are really worried we can return it" but this time was different, I didn't want to repeat my usual routine. In the car I organized my new wallet, and said "I am going to keep it - I think it's a good idea to try something different". Needless to say Dave was shocked with my response but with an encouraging "good idea!" I was set. I was battling in my mind, but I was determined.
So long story short - I am trying. I am serious trying. In a moment of "signs" I opened my new purse and noticed the teal colour of my wallet, is the exact same as the interior satin of my purse. WHAT A SIGN!
Ok, rant over. Time to tackle the Sunday "to do" list.
